Groovy (gluten free) Wedding Cakes

“A party without cake is just a meeting” – a quote you will find on the wonderfully colourful and eclectic site of gluten-free bakery taking the world by storm. If you want to consider a different, healthy OR gluten-free wedding cake idea then get lost in the magical wonderland of Pearl & Groove and delve into the flavour explosions of Rose Water & Pistachio, Banana & Peanut Butter, Earl Grey Tea Cake & Dark Chocolate and Stem Ginger.

Pearl & Groove Bakery’s Top 5 Rules

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Beautiful couture Juliet Poyser wedding dress for sale

An incredible opportunity to purchase a second hand couture wedding dress designed and made by Juliet Poyser, London. The dress is full length antique rose lace with a high boat neck, long sleeves and a deep V back leading down to buttons and small train. The dress would fit a slim, tall size 10. For further details please see the Ebay listing or contact us directly if you simply must have this dress here.

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A gift for your Bridesmaids

Brides are always asking for ideas on gifts for their bridesmaids. Our thoughts are always the same….keep it simple. You can’t go wrong with a  beautiful piece of jewellery that they can wear on the day and then keep forever after. Or perhaps a beautiful Rare Pear clutch bag but we’ll come back to those another day…

Navy Bay jewellery offers just that; understated luxury with beautiful keepsakes that you can afford (and keep forever). With a focus on beach chic, their Instagram page (@navybayjewellery) will warm your life with turquoise seas and white sands while your peruse their beautiful collection of  gem stones choosing what might suit your special girls (and you) the most…

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14K Gold-Filled Chain with Freshwater Pearl Bar

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14K Gold-Filled Chain with Rainbow Moonstone Droplet

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NavyBay are offering Butterflies & Bells readers 15% off any purchase, just enter NBWedding at checkout

Spring Wedding – Coastal & Creative

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The bride painted her own incredible seating plan and table names and hand-stamped all the name places (which can be ordered).

Handmade bunting and spring flowers decorate the marquee.

Photographs from Jim Pascoe Photography and for any questions regarding Name Place orders please contact us for Caroline’s details.

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Beautiful map table plan

A sneak preview to a beautiful wedding we’ve got coming soon….this incredible table plan was lovingly created and painted by the Bride herself – so impressed! An inspiring way to bring maps and your favourite place into your decorating…

For more Table plan ideas see here

Table Plan

Post Church Ice Lollies | Wedding Ideas & Inspiration

We’ve had a lot of questions about ideas of what to serve guests following the church service; if a homemade drink or glass of bubbles isn’t for you but you want to offer something here are some delicious recipes for summer ice lollies. For a lolly with a kick see our Champagne Ice Lolly recipe here. You could personalise the sticks and transport the lollies easily to the church in a cool box! For the two recipes below see two great blogs KatesCreativeSpace (fruit juice lollies) and DeliciouslyElla (dairy free).

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Rustic Country Wedding

We’re delighted that this incredibly beautiful wedding is gracing Butterflies & Bells. It has a wonderful sense of creativity and romance as a traditional style wedding without the formal boundaries. All food and drink was sourced locally from the New Forest and the stunning yet informal flowers are from Pippa Stoddart at Tussey Mussey Flowers; we love the milk bottles and jam jars they’re arranged in. Look out for the table tags, the Hen-made cakes, the swing and the horses. Beautiful photography by Tori Hancock; dress by Ellie Lowe and horses from Mouland Belgians.
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Beautiful Handwritten Wedding Stationery | Fleming and Sell


There’s something extremely satisfying about leaving a large town like London for a small town like Topsham and finding a truly hidden gem for the world of weddings tucked along those cobbled streets.

Fleming and Sell offer beautiful handwritten wedding stationery. Charlotte can do your InvitationsSave the Date cardsRSVP cards and Name Places and stationery starts from £1 per item. Each piece of stationery is handwritten in ink on hand torn watercolour paper (in off white).

Contact Charlotte Fleming here for more information

Wedding Wines | Advice from the experts at The Knotted Vine

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We have been speaking to wine experts The Knotted Vine about their top tips for choosing the wines for your wedding. We’ve collected their key points below as well as highlighting the wines they would choose for a wedding right now. Their approach is simple, they offer good wine, and their ‘wine jargon’ is comprehensive. It makes us excited to explore their world of wine and to get tasting!

Have a read and if you would like more advice or a consultation with them for your wedding contact them here – they will be happy to help!

Seek our professional help!

Any reputable wine merchants will be more than happy to help you choose wines that work perfectly for your wedding and your personal taste. Any merchants worth their salt will happily crack open bottle after bottle for free to find that ideal drop. Plus they can help you with food matching and working to a budget.

Champagne Vs Sparkling?

Choosing Champagne over a sparkling wine will double your cost, simple as that. If you are going to go for Champagne then choose something that is quality driven and that you really love, even if it means reaching a bit deeper into the pocket. DO NOT just have Champagne because of its name. There are plenty of excellent sparkling wines out there for a fraction of the cost that will be a knock out on the day.

Don’t rush over to France!

There seems to be a myth that doing a ‘booze cruise’ is the way forward but it is not. If you spend cheap in a Calais wine shop you will end up with bad wine and Champagne (see tip 2), your guests are not stupid and people do notice! Plus, by the time you have paid for the ferry, petrol, lunch etc you probably could have had something much better and stayed on British soil.

Choose something YOU like

I know this sounds obvious but many couples worry so much about cost/matching with the food/pleasing Uncle Bertie and so on that they forget to choose something that appeals to their personal taste. It is your day and you have to drink the stuff as well…so it is important that you like it.

Don’t hold back

Look for a wine merchants that does Sale and Return. This way, you can be bold with your quantities and remove any fear that you will run dry. It’s hard because even though you might not want guests to guzzle down wine, at the same time a wedding that comes to an abrupt halt because the booze has run out is not a pretty sight.

Lastly….enjoy! It is wine after all, so use it as an opportunity to have some fun and, you never know, you might learn a thing or two along the way!

The Knotted Vine’s choice…Champagne

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Louis Barthelemy ‘Amethyste’ Brut NV, Champagne, France £29

This Champagne is amazing value and the quality will blow you away. It is made with Pinot Noir, Chardonnay and Pinot Meunier and has been aged for 3 years before being released. Lovely deep toasty notes on the nose followed by apple and brioche on the palate with fine, elegant bubbles.

The Knotted Vine’s choice…Sparkling Wine

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Domaine des Gandines Cremant de Bourgogne NV, Burgundy, France £12.25

This is a fully organic Cremant from Burgundy made in the Champagne method. It is 100% Chardonnay and aged for a year so has lovely toast and apple notes, superb flavour and fine bubbles!

The Knotted Vine’s choice…White Wine

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Hecht & Bannier 2012, Languedoc, France £10

This is one of my very favourite whites. It is a blend of Picpoul and Roussanne – two classic Southern French varieties. Picpoul has wonderul acidity and freshness whilst Roussanne is lush and tropically. The end result is a wine that has generous fruit flavour but still crisp, satisfying freshness.


Quinta dos Espinhosos ‘Casa do Arrabalde’ 2012, Minho, Portugal (Back in stock soon)
This is a modern choice and a knock out wine. Made from the much praised Alvarihno grape, this wines is juicy, fruit driven and simple very enjoyable. It is a great choice for a wedding because people will not expect it but will be deeply impressed.

The Knotted Vine’s choice…Red Wine

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Cossetti Barbera ‘Vigna Vecchai’ 2010, Piedmont, Italy £10

We love, LOVE this wine. It is made from 65 year old Barbera vines and aged for 24 months in oak barrels. This means it is deep, complex but still with great red fruit character. A medium bodied wine for sure, so very versatile and not too full on. An un-doubtable winner!

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Las Perdices Malbec 2011, Mendoza, Argentina £9
Argy Malbec is huge right now and for good reason – the wine is warm, soft and so easy drinking without being too heavy. It is a great session wine and, therefore, perfect for weddings. Plus it will pretty much go with any red meat dishes.
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Winter Weddings | Ways to keep warm

Winter Wedding Ideas

Blankets for your guests, mince pies, candles by the dozen, mulled cider…just some of the wonderfully romantic and creative ways to add something special (and warm to your winter wedding).

Mulled Cider is a lovely, warming post church drink that won’t cause a threat to the bride’s dress like Mulled Wine does! See a very simple and delicious recipe below.









3½pts/2L dry cider or fresh apple juice
2 apples studded with cloves
4-6 cinnamon sticks
5-6 allspice berries
zest of 1 orange
dark rum (optional)
slices of apple for garnish

Preparation method

Combine all ingredients in a large saucepan and simmer gently for 30 minutes – do not boil.
Transfer to a heatproof bowl and ladle into glass mugs or paper cups. Garnish with apple slices to serve.
This serves 8-10


If you are looking to buy lots of small pillar candles, Ikea are selling a 4 pack for £1.75 with a burn time of 15 hours.

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London Caterers with a magical touch

There is nothing more exciting than coming across a wonderful and inspiring company like Social Pantry caterers. They recently interviewed Butterflies & Bells to find out more about us and we couldn’t recommend what they do highly enough; read our interview here and indulge in a peruse through their magical photos on Facebook.

If you are looking for a caterer for your wedding do get in touch with Alex and see what she can help you with.

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Christmas Weddings | Magical Touches

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1. Beautifully cut star paper lanterns from £5….hung from a ceiling would look magical. From Etsy

2. Wine glass or wine bottle christmas tree tags by Sophia Victoria Joy

3. We LOVE these knitted candle cosies from Henry’s Future

4. Crackers! A fun, interactive and icebreaking touch to your table – we love these designs by Nancy & Betty Studio

Conker name places and autumnal flowers


Autumn wedding

1. Conkers

Tied to a luggage tag for an autumnal name place

2. Autumnal flowers

Dahlias and alstromeria in vibrant maroons, yellows and oranges

3. Decorative Letters

To spell out a message, LOVE, or your names (and handy boxes to use after the wedding). Buy here

4. Gorgeous Lanterns

For a cosy glow from Nkuku

Swedish Fire Torches

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Swedish Fire Torches (or Swedish Candles) are designed in a way that can bring warmth, light and decoration to a party.

A path of them leading up to a marquee or a gathering of them outside, they create a cosy place to huddle on a cool English evening.

Buy them here or browse the internet on how to make your own.

Sloe Gin Wedding Favours

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The sloes are out and those with a winter wedding on the horizon might be searching for some interesting ideas for your wedding favours. Well, if you have at least 2 months to go, then get picking and shaking and treat your guests to a delicious bottle of homemade sloe gin.

Use this simple and quick recipe below or for a more detailed and intricate brew then have a read of Sipsmith’s suggestions here.

Sloe Gin Recipe


  • 450g/1lb sloes
  • 225g/8oz caster sugar
  • 1 litre/1¾ pint gin (USE GOOD GIN!)

Preparation method

  1. Prick the tough skin of the sloes all over with a clean needle and put in a large sterilised jar.
  2. Pour in the sugar and the gin, seal tightly and shake well.
  3. Store in a cool, dark cupboard and shake every other day for a week. Then shake once a week for at least two months.
  4. Strain the sloe gin through muslin into a sterilised bottle.